{"id":10572,"date":"2012-08-20T20:27:05","date_gmt":"2012-08-21T01:27:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/?p=10572"},"modified":"2012-09-30T15:52:14","modified_gmt":"2012-09-30T20:52:14","slug":"boxes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/2012\/08\/20\/boxes\/","title":{"rendered":"Boxes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/kid-in-box.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-10573\" title=\"kid-in-box\" src=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/kid-in-box.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/kid-in-box.jpg 320w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/kid-in-box-300x229.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/kid-in-box-261x200.jpg 261w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/kid-in-box-90x68.jpg 90w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a>I hate to admit it, but I live in a box. \u00a0It&#8217;s a box created for me by others, by business, family, friends and the world around me. But the really sad truth is that I willingly climbed in the box and taped the lid shut&#8230;never asking if it was a box I should be in at all, never thinking about the implications of such a box in my life. \u00a0Like everyone around me I was given a box by someone somewhere and willingly made it my own and even wrote my name on it! \u00a0It became part of my identity.<\/p>\n<p>Like children playing, making cars, houses and forts out of boxes we adults build invisible boxes for one another. \u00a0Boxes of expectation, roles, position, and a hundred other words to describe the box we have come to call our identity, or role, our &#8220;place&#8221;. \u00a0We never stop to think about what that box means, how it might affect us and our choices or the way we think. Our box limits our choices, restricts our vision, and frustrates our gifts.<\/p>\n<p>This morning I had coffee with a good friend who told me I was living in a box. \u00a0He didn&#8217;t know where I got it, but he <a href=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-10574\" title=\"Box\" src=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"288\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box.jpg 320w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Box-80x80.jpg 80w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 288px) 100vw, 288px\" \/><\/a>described it well. \u00a0As he listened to me he made me aware \u00a0of how restricted my vision had become because of the box I had accepted many years ago. \u00a0It was humbling to realize I had been given a box and had never questioned its role in my life. \u00a0Was it right? Should I get into it? Is this the way I should live? \u00a0Is this how I should think?<\/p>\n<p>Without any questions I took the boxes handed me and made them my own. They have limited me, identified me, and restricted God&#8217;s work in my life. \u00a0How did I ever let this happen? Why did I believe this box was what I needed to identify me?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/child-in-box.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-10575\" title=\"child-in-box\" src=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/child-in-box.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"193\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/child-in-box.jpg 214w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/child-in-box-53x80.jpg 53w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 193px) 100vw, 193px\" \/><\/a>Children love boxes. \u00a0They aren&#8217;t so much fun when they define your life, your thinking or your values as an adult. \u00a0I can&#8217;t believe that I let this happen&#8230;.happy to look out the hole I had cut in my box and survey the world around me&#8230;.trying to make boxes like mine for others&#8230;.only to find I had made prisoners of us all.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m taking a different tack today as I look at my thoughts and my life. \u00a0I&#8217;ve decided it&#8217;s time to be done with the boxes of childhood and walk in the freedom of the grace that Christ has provided.<\/p>\n<p>Read Romans 8 as you look at your own life. What boxes have you made your own? \u00a0How have you missed God&#8217;s grace by accepting the boxes others have given you?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Visit Mike at <a href=\"http:\/\/mikemesserli.blogspot.com\" target=\"_blank\">Finishing Well<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hate to admit it, but I live in a box. \u00a0It&#8217;s a box created for me by others, by business, family, friends and the world around me. But the really sad truth is that I willingly climbed in the box and taped the lid shut&#8230;never asking if it was a box I should be &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/2012\/08\/20\/boxes\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Boxes&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":10573,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,25],"tags":[5721,2414,5719,5717,5720,2413,557,2544,4429,5718,32,554,5715,2993,5716],"class_list":["post-10572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-archived","category-mike","tag-adult","tag-adults","tag-boxes","tag-business-family","tag-cars","tag-choices","tag-coffee","tag-expectation","tag-family-friends","tag-forts","tag-god","tag-good-friend","tag-living-in-a-box","tag-prisoners","tag-sad-truth"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10572","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10572"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10572\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10572"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10572"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10572"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}