{"id":7151,"date":"2011-10-24T22:13:02","date_gmt":"2011-10-25T03:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/?p=7151"},"modified":"2012-03-28T12:22:02","modified_gmt":"2012-03-28T17:22:02","slug":"dealing-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/24\/dealing-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing With Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/24\/dealing-with-me\/man-looking-in-the-mirror\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7152\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-7152\" title=\"man-looking-in-the-mirror\" src=\"http:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/man-looking-in-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"197\" height=\"185\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/man-looking-in-the-mirror.jpg 197w, https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/man-looking-in-the-mirror-85x80.jpg 85w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 197px) 100vw, 197px\" \/><\/a>My biggest problem is not my work, other people around me or even the struggles I face. My biggest problem is ME! I live in a world of people all struggling, for the most part, with themselves. It&#8217;s all these struggling people clashing together that creates the problems we see around us.<\/p>\n<p>Unless I can deal with the me I see in the mirror I can never work though my issues with you. Paul the apostle knew this struggle himself, we all understand the struggle, but he actually articulated his own battle. Here are a few of his thoughts,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have discovered this principle of life\u2014that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love God\u2019s law with all my heart. But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My biggest problem is ME! I hate that. I want to please God, I want to be who he designed me to be. I want to live as he designed me, but something keeps pulling me down to the base person I was when I first met him. That &#8220;me&#8221; that causes all my problems, all my anger, my sinful thoughts, my frustrations, irritations, my resentments. All the things that come from that &#8220;me&#8221;&#8230;..is not the me God wants me to be. He has created in me a new man, and yet I so easily fall back to that old man. It&#8217;s so frustrating. I hate it! I so understand Paul&#8217;s words and struggles. So do you, don&#8217;t you? We all live with this tug of sin pulling at our hearts, minds and affections, but it&#8217;s not the end of the story. There is a solution that Paul mentions at the end of his thoughts in this passage. Here&#8217;s his conclusion,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey God\u2019s law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that my sinful nature will never improve. I have to deal with that and &#8220;walk in the Spirit,&#8221; the new man God created when I trusted him. My old man, the old me, always wants its way&#8230;that won&#8217;t change&#8230;it&#8217;s my reality. It&#8217;s yours too. My challenge is to choose to walk in his Spirit and not as the &#8220;me&#8221; who wants his way. Today I&#8217;m struggling with me. Frustrated by the man in my mirror, but I know God has provided a better way.<\/p>\n<p>My next step today is to walk in that new way and thank God for his forgiveness and grace.<\/p>\n<p>This struggle will be ours until we finish this life. It&#8217;s part of the curse, but the hope we have is the Spirit of God in us that gives us the opportunity to live in a new &#8220;me&#8221; that pleases God. I remember the story of a young man asking his grandfather when the passions of life ebb. The old saint paused for a moment and then, with 85 years of wisdom, responded, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know, but if they ever do I&#8217;ll let you know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dealing with &#8220;me&#8221; is my struggle for the day.\u00a0Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord.<\/p>\n<p>Visit Mike at <a href=\"http:\/\/mikemesserli.blogspot.com\" target=\"_blank\">Finishing Well<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My biggest problem is not my work, other people around me or even the struggles I face. My biggest problem is ME! I live in a world of people all struggling, for the most part, with themselves. It&#8217;s all these struggling people clashing together that creates the problems we see around us. Unless I can &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/24\/dealing-with-me\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dealing With Me&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":7152,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,25],"tags":[2710,454,2716,2711,32,2707,631,2715,2705,2709,2713,2703,1428,2714,2708,2706,2704,2077,2253,2712],"class_list":["post-7151","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-archived","category-mike","tag-affections","tag-anger","tag-conclusion","tag-frustrations","tag-god","tag-hearts-minds","tag-jesus-christ-our-lord","tag-mirror","tag-miserable-person","tag-new-man","tag-old-man","tag-paul-the-apostle","tag-people","tag-principle","tag-resentments","tag-sinful-nature","tag-sinful-thoughts","tag-spirit","tag-struggle","tag-tug"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7151","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7151"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7151\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7152"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7151"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7151"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianrep.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7151"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}